Teal (teal_cuttlefish) wrote,

No Pity, No Shame, No Silence.

I'm Margaret Alia. I'm a survivor of sexual violence.
No Pity. No Shame. No Silence.

In my case, I was raped repeatedly by my ex-husband. He was very well endowed, and very rough, and I suffered from a lot of bladder infections while I was married to him.

Subsequent experience has shown me that simply being well endowed is not enough to cause a bladder infection. It was the sheer, possessive violence of what he called "lovemaking" that caused me to have constant infections.

I learned a valuable lesson from that marriage. I changed what I found attractive in a man. As a result, I have two loving men in my life who would not harm me for the world, and a beautiful, outgoing daughter.
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